How I Got Here
If you told me 10 years ago that I would be a business owner putting all my eggs in this basket because it “felt right,” I would have either laughed or had a complete panic attack. But in the last 10 years, I have completely changed….or I should say, I have become the person I truly am instead of the masks I put on to please others.
A few years ago, it started with learning my birth chart. My midheaven (what points you towards your career or vocation) was in pisces. Ok sure, I’ve always been a spiritual person (more on that later!). That’s cute but whatever I have this awful but secure job that pays the bills and I value security over excitement (at least that’s what I thought I was supposed to value).
Then I started practicing my spirituality and exercising my intuitive muscle more regularly. I learned tarot more in depth and I continued to develop my own rituals. I practiced around the lunar and solar calendar not because I worshipped the moon or sun, but these seasons were reminders of the different aspects of my whole self that I wanted to grow and evolve.
Tarot lead to energy healing techniques. I was already a Reiki Master at this point, but learned other techniques. I really committed to different workshops and trainings over a few years. As I became more and more fulfilled, I became less and less satisfied with my current position: job, home life, purpose.
The biggest theme that came through was that I have always dimmed my light for others. Through my practices and healings, I realized I needed to stop dimming that light. Dimming my light looked like not speaking up when hurt, not expressing my needs, not setting boundaries or sticking to them, putting energy into what had to be done instead of what I wanted to do, and the worst part - punishing myself for my emotions. My big emotions were a superpower, not a problem. My social anxiety wasn’t an illness, it was an energetic reaction to all the emotions of others and I perceived that as a threat rather than connection that I could control with my own boundaries.
Eventually I came to the Truth with a capital T. The Truth is that my soul chose this lifetime to SHINE, not dim. I came to be a light to others who felt what I felt. I felt called to awaken and be there to help others awaken. I’m not a list of diagnoses that needed tools to stop things. I needed to be set free to be a blazing sun.
My first dabble in starting a business was to make it a little fun - some tarot reading and energy healing. It didn’t have much structure. Then 2025 happened. This became one of the most transformational years (for a lot of people)! A 9 year in numerology (endings) and a snake year (sheddings). Sure did plenty of that! But in the stripping away, I learned to love who I am. I found a life coach certification program, Wholehearted Coaching, that would be THE foundation and structure I needed to truly put myself all in my purpose. The philosophy of this course centers around decolonizing. That is, removing the capitalistic and colonial ideals of what life should be like. My soul recognized this - be human and be divine. Everything else was made up to control or exploit me.
So here it is. Radiant Souls. All of us shining together. I felt it coming for years, co-creating it with the universe. I had to make changes in my life to make space for this and I did. I took major risks, but each time it felt absolutely aligned and correct. I’m so grateful for all my mentors and healers throughout and I’m so excited to be on this journey!
